So then. Next year won't be 'The One', it won't solve your problems, and it won't provide the meaning of your life. You have to sort these things out for yourself, rather than just hoping they'll come along.
2010 has been a hell of a year for me, both personally and professionally. The main thing I have finally realized is that things don't work out unless you work at them yourself. Opportunity won't just land in your lap. You have to work hard for the stuff you want, whatever it is.
Just my tuppence-worth.
(Watch out for 2010: My Year In Rock and Metal, soon!)